We thought it would be fun to write a short blog of our reflections on our first full year in living in Beatrix, taking on the road less travelled.
To make it more interesting, I did this as an interview style Q&A whilst on the long road down to the Alps covering our Top 5 Happy Memories, Top 5 Learnings and what made us laugh and cry in 2022.
So Toby, what were your top 5 positive experiences in Beatrix in 2022?
- I think I would have to say getting to Montgenevre, being in the mountains and having such a long time being able to ski – that goes without saying
- Visiting St Emilion would be on the list – the drive into the Passion was amazing – walking around St Emilion was stunning and talking to the vineyard owner and learning a little about how he makes the wine was amazing and we managed to buy some great wine as well!
- Banchory, in Scotland, with our friends Clare, Chris and their two children. With our busy lives and COVID, we hadn’t been to their new house or met their youngest Finn. Added to that was the fact it was the Jubilee celebration weekend, the weather was amazing and we had a BBQ until very late with an amazing sunset. That evening will probably stay with me a while as it was really relaxed and the scenery and weather was perfect
- La Rochelle with our friends Tim and Victoria. The long weekend in October had perfect sunny weather, cycling around Ile de Re with Merlin on the back, some fantastic food and a beach visit with swimming for the brave
- Spending August in Norfolk with our friends. Enjoying some time in the pool during a REALLY hot summer, having my first surfing lesson in Cromer and cold Peroni’s with BBQ’s in the garden.
Because I can, I’m going to add another and have 6 best bits. I really enjoyed the warmth in Cannes as we took a break from skiing during half term. It was an unexpected bonus taking time out from the mountains.
There are lots of other things too but they’d be the ones that immediately stand out for me.
I’m not sure I should let you have 6 however what’s done is done. This question you only get 5! What were you top 5 learnings in 2022?
I think the biggest one here would be the change in mindset that we had half way through the year when we changed from using club sites to CL or even wild camping to save some costs. This shift was pretty significant and I think for me that is the biggest learning we had last year.
The second learning was how to fix things on Beatrix. We* managed to fix the window blinds, the broken step, and some of the electrical issues that we had – including changing the fog lights!
*Toby is being very modest as mostly when anything is fixed he fixes them and I am the assistant!
The third thing was learning how to give Merlin a haircut – this may not seem like much however our furry friend hates being groomed and has even been known to bite when in this situation. So we are slowly but surely knowing how to cut her without the need for a muzzle and for her to actually look like a Schnauzer – the cut gets better each time – although we may be biased!
Number 4…… hmmmm, I think this would be getting more comfortable with driving Beatrix. I remember driving her up to Montgenevre for the first time and more importantly my fear of her tipping over when we came down the mountain. Now I am much more comfortable driving her.
So number 5 is really trusting Beatrix and being better when we go over potholes and hear bangs and crashes internally. This is unfortunately parr for the course at the moment as Beatrix suspension is quite basic. So now instead of getting too annoyed by the crashes and bangs I just notice them and get annoyed with the state of the road. With regards to trusting Beatrix – she has not really let us down at all – I worry about all sorts of things however she’s been fantastic as a home for us so far and let’s hope she keeps that up.
So Sally, what about you what were your top 5 bits of 2022 and what did you learn?
I could easily say the same as you for my top 5 – and yet I think a couple of mine would be different. Rather than changing your top 6, I will add to them.
Top 5 Addition 1: going to Sainte Marguerite on the boat for the day. I loved the fact that we hadn’t really planned that trip and it was glorious weather. We walked for miles and it was stunning, it was like being on a Caribbean Island.
Top 5 Addition 2 and 3: I also really loved a couple of our experiences on our Scotland tour which we haven’t yet blogged about. Particularly the CL site Crofters Snug on the northern coast of Scotland as the scenery was breathtaking and yet again the weather was pretty good. The other one I would mention was staying the night at Glenshee – when we took Merlin for a walk there was only us and one other VW van and we saw stags on the hillside – it was so secluded and beautiful the colours of the fern were really indescribable. It felt like my breaths were deeper there – like your were drinking in the beauty.
Learning addition 1: I have learnt we are a pretty good team, in different scenarios we both help each other manage the emotions or situation – and there are different triggers we both have that can get us anxious or stressed. Generally we do a good job at calming each other one down – mostly because we both have strengths in different areas.
Learning addition 2: I think my comfort zone generally has been stretched quite a bit – which is a good thing. There are things I know now I would not have had a clue about last year. As you mentioned the way we approach things has changed quite a bit. I personally have learnt to do quite a few tasks in Beatrix, and there aren’t really any ‘blue or pink’ jobs in Beatrix anymore. I do the electrical hook up cable (when the blue cable isn’t frozen!) and have learnt how the rear steadies work which a year ago I had no idea about! That being said Toby, as you know I’m still no good with a screwdriver or at painting anything!
So that’s interesting and knowing that Toby what do you want 2023 to hold for us?
I want to Kayak more, use the fire pit more, be outdoors more – I really want to be an outdoorsman!
I’d like to cook more interesting things and extend our cooking repertoire – especially if it could be cooked outdoors too.
I’d like to meet and speak to more local people in the places that we travel too. We would probably have different and interesting adventure tales if we shared them with other people sometimes.
Oh and be more adventurous – with travel to Scotland and in Wales or maybe Ireland.
What about you Sally?
I agree with all of those especially the cooking and being more adventurous with what we cook. In addition I want to improve my skiing when we hit the Alps and spend our time better – whether that’s walking, running, drawing or writing – more of all of these things would be good.
I’d also like us to get a few more followers on Facebook and WordPress too!
What made you laugh?
When you (Sally) use your pidgin French to try to help other people. I love the way you just dive straight in without knowing the words that you’ll need. The episode that springs to mind is when you were trying to explain to a French chap how the really overly complicated barrier system worked at Biscarosse beach which was hysterical. It ended up with a lot of arm gesticulation and French, English, and German words being used and I’m not sure that he was any clearer what to do afterwards!
I do love you but more French vocab is probably needed to help others!
What made you want to cry?
Nothing really……. maybe the bills we get everytime Beatrix goes in for a service?
Ok then what was your worst bit Toby?
I think for me when I thought Beatrix was going to tip over whilst coming down the hairpin bends between Montgenevre and Briancon. I just didn’t know what to do – I couldn’t think about anything other than the forces and what would happen if we continued on the path we were on. It was terrifying.
The heating over pressure valve leaking in the ski resort and then freezing up was a bit annoying however we made a temporary fix which got us through the really cold periods.
I was also disappointed with having to come back to the UK due to the Schengen rule as it was really good in France on both occasions last year.
Sally what about you – what made you laugh and cry?
The crying for me is easy as when I distended my thumb in Montgenevre I thought I had broken it and yes there were tears! The laughter one is a bit more tricky – I laugh a lot with you (Toby) when you make up ridiculous songs about things – especially those involving Merlin.
Another question we get asked a lot from friends and when people find out we full time in Beatrix is
What do you miss the most about living in a bricks and mortar house? Sally?
For me this one is easy – it’s all about showers! I miss having long, hot showers. Beatrix is great and we have a shower however only a small hot water tank so showers are more functional and have less water usage. I love visiting friends, family or even some good campsites that have great showers! Toby what about you?
So those are our reflections on 2022 in Beatrix. We’re already three months into 2023 and what I can tell you is we’ve already used the fire pit more this year than we did last year…. although Toby still needs some practice getting it going!
Here’s hoping our wishes for this year can become a reality.
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Have a great day
Sally, Toby and Merlin